Feb 2023

The secret to desire in a long-term relationship

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Esther Perel

February – the month of love!  Historically, I have always chosen a talk in the month of February that somehow links to relationships and love.  This year is no different.  I love Esther’s talks, and I’m willing to bet that you will learn something useful in this one.

In long-term relationships, we often expect our beloved to be both best friend and erotic partner. But as Esther Perel argues, good and committed sex draws on two conflicting needs: our need for security and our need for surprise. So how do you sustain desire? With wit and eloquence, Perel lets us in on the mystery of erotic intelligence.